Petals & Preferences: A Guide to Gifting Flowers That Speaks Their Love language
People have turned to flowers as timeless symbols of love for generations. A bouquet can show affection, shout admiration, or simply say “I see you” in a way that words might not be able to. But no two love stories are alike, and expressing emotions in the way that means the most to your partner? That’s where the magic really happens. At The Floratory in Peoria, Illinois, we take inspiration from Gary Chapman’s love languages, the similar-yet-nuanced seven romance styles, and what brings your partner joy (from hobbies to personality quirks) to help guide your floral choices. The result? Arrangements that feel like they were made just for your story. Whether your gesture is bold or subtle, these thoughtful pairings ensure your gift lands right where it should.
Wake Them Up With The Smell of Their Favorite Breakfast and Blooms
For the partner who feels love through actions honoring service, breakfast in bed is pure gold. Begin with a soft floral surprise such as calla lilies or a bouquet of garden roses on the nightstand. Then, prepare their breakfast favorites, like a veggie frittata, decadent sausage, or their go-to morning drink. The food may be the vehicle, but the act is about showing you care for them deeply. And don’t forget the golden rule: clean up afterward. Remove the tray, wipe down the counters, and let them enjoy the rest of their morning with ease. These simple acts create lasting warmth and appreciation.
Surprise Them with Plane Tickets, a Bouquet, and Grand Travel Plans
Time spent meaningfully as a couple and financial investment matters a lot for some folks; for them, travel is a gift that speaks volumes. Whether it’s a European getaway or a week spent on a cruise ship, presenting the adventure should feel just as customized. For the big reveal, pair plane, boat, or train tickets with a lush bouquet of roses, ranunculus, or their favorite blooms in their favorite hue. The flowers serve as a preview of what’s ahead, building excitement and reminding your loved one of the incredible journey you’re about to share.
Attend a Floral Design Class Together
Do they thrive during fun experiences and shared moments? If so, a floral design session is a fresh and exciting idea. It’s an interactive date that lets you connect, get a little playful with your creativity, and maybe even laugh over your floral “techniques.” Maybe you’re a natural at design or maybe you’re figuring it out together, but either way, it’s the experience that counts. Plus, your partner will get to take their beautiful bouquet home, a sweet keepsake from a lighthearted and meaningful date. For those who value time over things, this kind of activity-based gift is perfect.
Send Them a Monthly Flower Subscription
For those who feel most loved when given emotional support, florals delivered each month become a tender way to stay connected. This ongoing gesture wraps beauty, presence, and thoughtfulness all in one. You can curate each bouquet with blooms that carry special meaning, or simply stick to their favorites for comfort and familiarity. The card is your moment to speak from the heart, so share memories, encouragement, or little reminders of love. If you’re long distance, this routine becomes even more powerful, giving your sweetheart a tangible expression of care.
Pair Flowers with a Romantic Gift
Romantic flowers like velvety roses, graceful orchids, fresh tulips, or colorful anemones make a beautiful present on their own. But when receiving gifts is your partner’s love language, pairing flowers with something extra shows just how well you know them. Maybe it’s a box of their favorite local chocolates, a posh self-care set, or a thoughtful gift tied to their favorite interest or hobby. These small additions become powerful expressions of attention and affection. It highlights the effort you made to personalize your gesture, and that will leave them feeling completely treasured.
When you know how your partner experiences love, every gift becomes more meaningful. Whether they respond to time, words, or thoughtful presents, flowers make those gestures bloom. At The Floratory, we help bring your love language to life through sophisticated arrangements that say exactly what’s in your heart.
Romance Style/Love Language
Types of Flowers
Gifts/Activities to Pair with Flowers
Practical/Acts of Service
Sweet anemones
Prepare their favorite breakfast (and clean up afterwards)
Financial & Emotional Investment
Luxurious orchids
Surprise them with plane tickets for a grand adventure
Experiences/Quality Time
Sculptural anthuriums
Try a new hobby together, like a floral design class
Emotional Support
Heartfelt hydrangeas
Subscribe to monthly floral subscriptions
Receiving Gifts
Romantic red roses
Gift gourmet chocolates, jewelry, or spa essentials